“WHEN A PERSON dies, it’s normal to wonder what they were thinking, how they felt,” is what Ms. Carver told us one day in group when Ebony asked, “Is it weird that I want to know if my dad felt any pain, or if he knew he was dying?” “Questions are a part of grief,” Ms. Carver said. “Some questions will never be answered, but some will. You can write your questions in a journal or ask someone you trust. It’s important not to keep all those wonderings in your mind, it’s important to let them out so you can make room for other thoughts to come in.”
