“I UNDERSTAND that someone they loved died, but it isn’t the same. They talk about months, weeks of goodbyes and quality time. I didn’t have that. Neither did DD or Ebony. And I’m tired of talking about it like it’s the same. “Why can’t you two just say, ‘I’m sorry that happened,’ or ‘Losing my loved one was hard too?’ I’d be okay with that. But to say you know how I feel, to say we are the same . . . no. You knew death was coming. You got to say goodbye.”
