If no consequence comes to mind, it is much better to take our time and think of an appropriate consequence than to blurt something out in haste or anger. We are no less effective as parents when we take a little time to think through consequences. Much-needed time for thinking can be bought with the following words: “I’m not sure what to do about this right now, but I’ll let you know.” “You know, I’ve never been the parent of a five-year-old boy before, so I’ll have to give this some thought. I’ll get back to you on it.” “I’m not sure how to react to that. I’ll have to give it some thought.”
