Never give choices when the child is in danger. 4. Always give only two verbal choices, but make sure the child knows there is an implied third choice: If he doesn’t decide, then you’ll decide for him. 5. Your delivery is important. Try to start your sentence with one of the following: “You’re welcome to_____or_____.” “Feel free to_____or_____.” “Would you rather_____or______?” “What would be best for you — _____or_____?”
