I don’t think it makes sense to conflate everyday violence with the kind of stuff you—we—are into. In fact, I don’t think the two things are related at all.” His gaze is steady. “What you and I want, it’s all about trust. We decide to be part of it. It sounds like whatever happened to you had little to do with you making any decisions, right?”
Ooh this is eloquently said.. Sexual kinks that are reliant on trust are not the same as an abusive relationship bc both parties did not agree on the treatment
