Daphne was the wife of Philip’s much-loved head of household, General Sir Frederick Arthur Montague Browning – ‘Boy’ to friends and family – who was a hero of the First World War. In the second, he had helped found the First Airborne Division and led his men through the horrors at Arnhem in ‘forty-four. He was sociable, organised, military to his core … perhaps the last person one would expect to be married to a sensitive novelist like Daphne.

