“And Yaakov was angry and fought with Lavan… What is my sin and what is my crime that you chased after me?” (Bereishis 31). Rabbi Yehuda Leib Chasman, the principal of Chevron Yeshivah, said: After suffering from avan’s thievery and trickery for twenty years, Yaakov runs away from him. Yaakov sees that Lavan still hasn’t given up on him and is chasing after him. We would think that at least Yaakov would say to Lavan, “You are a thief, a low person, a sinner.” Instead, Yaakov says, “What is my sin and what is my crime,” as if he’s trying to appease Lavan. This is how a tzaddik speaks, even when
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