It is taught in the Zohar (Tikkunim 69, 2) that a person who protects himself from disputes and anger will merit that his home resemble the Beis Hamikdash! The angels on Friday night will say, “This is not the place of a simple person; rather, this is a place that Hashem desires.” This is also the translation of the verse (Bereishis 28), “This is none other than the house of Hashem and the gate of Heaven.” Onkelos explains, “This is not a place of a simple one; rather, it’s a place of Hashem’s will!” (Be’er Moshe, Shemos, p. 993)
