“I was just thinking I should start working out again.” She looks longingly at the equipment scattered around. I have a gym inside but the fresh air has been good for me. “You’re welcome to use anything you want, whenever you want.” I pick up a ten-pound medicine ball and toss it to her. She catches it with an “oof.” “I didn’t mean now,” she says. “What else are you doing?” She shifts the weight of the ball from hand to hand.