As a kinky, genderqueer femme with a big mouth and what you could call a rather enterprising pussy, I am accustomed to having to create my own family, my home and community, and even myself. I am proud of the keen ability queer folks have to create personal, joyful somethings out of the nothings we’re all too often offered. I don’t know, however, if I can be proud that we’ve had to make our own coffins.
