If we want to get better at relationships, we must face our fears and be willing to make mistakes. There’s no way around it. That’s “the work.” To be clear, though, each of us is a work in progress. Our task is not to become invincible. We do not have to become fearless, free of trauma, and happy all the time to have a healthy and fulfilling relationship. And although awareness is key, we can’t stop there.
