The good girl is typically sweet, agreeable, and a nurturer. She follows all the rules and is polite. Her belief system says, If I have boundaries, then I’m unkind. If I have a strong opinion, then I’m aggressive. If I have needs, then I’m selfish. As much as I think most people could learn how to be more selfless in their relationships and not always make everything about them, the good girl is selfless to a fault. Not only does she put everyone else’s needs and comfort before her own, but the good girl is also at risk of making excuses for horrible behavior.
