How do I feel when I’m with them and when I’m not with them? Do I like myself when I’m with them? Do I feel comfortable being myself with them? Can I safely express an opinion with them? Do I actually like this person, or am I mostly preoccupied with getting them to like me? Do we share the same core values in life? Do we have the same goals in life in regard to family, children, money, and lifestyle? Have I seen them yet when they were stressed-out? What was that like? When they’re stressed, are we still able to remain connected emotionally?
