She wants to tell her children to stop arguing. The past doesn’t matter anymore; they all did what they had to in order to live. She wants to tell them what matters most is family—it is the only thing that matters, the only way to make a home. They alone will remember Haiwen when she is gone. They alone will remember their father, and soon, her. She wants to tell them people only die when there is no one left to remember them, but if they hold each other tightly, they can keep all the ghosts of their family alive.
