Next, recall those who forcefully and dramatically beat themselves up after a mistake can control others from getting upset with them, as they don’t want to add criticism, can’t get a word in if they tried in the storm of self-hatred, or they attempt to reassure angry persons and redirect their focus to more calming things, such as praise their good characteristics or intentions, or recollect their successes.
This is an example of some of the very confusingly written passages in this book! A few punctuation marks or sentence divisions - some basic editing - coukd really make a difference in legibility.
