“Simply what you are. A devoted big brother who needs to be needed by your family. Remember the time I invited you to come to Charleston with me and you said you couldn’t leave them?” I can’t believe she’s rewriting our history so egregiously. “One time, Amber. That was one time, and it was thirteen years ago.” “That was one of a whole series of incidents. I stopped asking you to do anything or go anywhere with me because it hurt too much when you chose them over me. Every single time.” Is that really how she’s felt our entire marriage? Like she’s second best?