Growth is natural for a healthy human being, but it doesn’t redress some fundamental deficiency. There is no such thing as a fundamental deficiency, despite what our prevailing cultural narrative says. Each person perfectly instantiates the version of personhood that they embody. A tree is a tree at five feet high or at sixty feet high; it doesn’t become worthy of being called a tree only at a specific height. It perfectly expresses its tree-ness at any stage of its growth process. Tat tvam asi, as the ancient Upanishads say—that’s how you are as well. You are perfectly human, right now. Your
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