What are we most wanting for you? The answer is simple. Bless what your spouse reveals about your need for grace. Bless them for being the face of God and at times the smell of hell. Stay in the conflict until you need to care for your body and your fragmenting brain. Return and ask the question of yourself and your spouse that Steve and Lisa borrowed from God: Where are you? Meaning, Where have you gone? Do you want to come back?

