Psychiatrist:Everyone has those experiences where they have flashbacks to things they don’t want to remember. Like when they felt hate towards things they consciously knew it was wrong to hate. They feel shame and make an effort to do better. They may not have always been victims in the past. But that’s how you ‘become your own person’ with your own thoughts, by trying on different attitudes and rolling with the punches that follow. An extreme experience remembered in a single moment cannot and does not explain someone’s whole life.
