place the interests of others before our own. This capacity is created when we become indifferent to the anxiety that arises when we begin to act lovingly, when we begin to put ourselves at the end of the line and allow others to go before us. We become indifferent to the basic anxiety attendant to acts of material sacrifice for others, as well as to the neurotic anxiety attendant when we forgo success (as our culture defines it) and place ourselves in the role of servant.
