That’s what unnecessary friction does: replaces the pleasure that might have been. Instead of sharing a laugh, you’re rolling your eyes and stoking tension. I recalled when we recently bought furniture for our new place. Totally different experience. I gave no opinion on the throw pillow colors, the style of the couches, the height of the lamps. Relle was in her bliss choosing what she wanted, and I was in my bliss watching her enjoy it. These days I settle disagreements quickly. I served a lot less time than I feared I would. I plan to make my extra time joyful.
