What feels like love to me?
An appreciation for what I do, and my kind gestures.
Who makes me feel that way?
Shevira when she tells people how much I do or how I fix things.
Do I feel loved in bodily resonant ways by my partner?
Yes. When she hugs me, hugs are special to me.
Who was the first person in my life to make me feel loved?
Have I thanked him/ her enough?
Can I tell my partner what feels like love to me?
Yes
Can I ask her the same question?
Yes
What will I do with the information?
Give her love in that way.
Is the love I offer childlike, parental, or adult?
Adult
Is the love I seek childlike, parental, or adult?
Adult
When we feel little or no love coming our way, we may look for proof of love. The more proofs we seek, the more our partner feels threatened, tested, and on the spot. Am I in either of these positions?
Tested and on the spot
