As President Monson describes it, a “boy’s man” loves the boys; he thinks like the boys; he is fun to be around. He maintains his place on the pedestal in the minds of the young men, and communicates to the boys by his actions and his words: “I like being with you.” “You have great potential.” “We can talk about anything, and I will not judge you.” A “boy’s man” also has a finely tuned spiritual antenna, ready at any time to find a spiritual application for a temporal activity.