And then Lucy had told him about gaslighting, that this was something narcissists do, and he had not exactly understood the concept. But he understood now, when Margaret had turned it on him, saying that she lived every day of her life aware of his childhood trauma. They love being the center of attention. They cannot take criticism. They are controlling. They talk about themselves all the time. They are not empathic. Though this one gave Bob hope: Margaret was very compassionate about her congregants. In fact, about many people.
