Then, after a pause, “How do you know if you’ll be miserable or happy with someone?” “Well, I think the first step is to not marry a stranger just because they fell asleep on your couch.” He shot me another smirk. “And then, well, marry someone who brings out the best in you.” “That’s what everyone says.” “Okay, think about it this way. When you’re with someone, if you like yourself, then they’re good for you. If you don’t like yourself, then they’re not. I think it’s that simple.”

