“but he sulked and pouted for the rest of the evening. It’s just not worth it.” Again, we see Lisa’s discomfort with change. Sulking and pouting is Rich’s problem, and it is not Lisa’s business or responsibility to fix or take away his feelings. Although no one has died from sulking yet, women, the emotional rescuers of the world, can have a terribly difficult time allowing others just to sit with their feelings and learn to handle them.