After my dad died, we kind of fell into this understanding where you didn’t leave any stone unturned when it came to the ones you loved. You didn’t make decisions based on assumptions and you always asked for clarification when needed. People find it annoying. People often push you away. But later on, you learn that the same people really just want you to stay, want you to care, want you to love them, they just don’t know how to ask.
