So now put yourself in a social setting like a work retreat. You’re having a good time exchanging ideas, writing them down with felt markers on those huge Post-it notepads. Suddenly your boss says to you in a vaguely accusatory tone, “Don, I overheard you talking in your group and it sounded like you had some ideas for better-quality products here at the Widget company. What were those ideas?” Lizard brain, being our social survival coach, immediately speaks up in your head: “This is a setup, he’s going to shoot you down no matter what you say, deflect the question! Keep your mouth shut, keep
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