We are goal-oriented. We learn to celebrate the completion of a job with pomp and circumstance; the arrival of a product like the iPad is touted with headlines and hyperbole. In all this celebration and marketing, we lose track of the earlier part of the equation: the ideas, materials, and quality that go into the work. This obsession with the end product sets us up for a nasty, lifelong pattern of seemingly endless periods of boredom, stress, and tension while waiting to celebrate, followed by a celebration that is far too short, followed by long periods of boredom, stress, and tension, and
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