Released: Conversations on the Eve of Freedom

by Gypsy-Rose Blanchard

Love is patient and kind, not submissive or controlling.

Being a people-pleaser requires you to submit a part of yourself to the person you aim to please. You give up your own needs and desires, and put the person’s interests in front of your own. In return you expect a payment in the form of validation and acceptance. This kind of currency is dangerous because the cost is you.