I say, you can have it all. But you’ve got to walk away from the idea that it’s going to look like some movie. Having it all is as messy as you can get. You’re going to have consequences for your choices. Not everybody is going to think you’ve got it together. That’s the hard part of that kind of goal. You’re going to spend your life trying to figure it out. There are going to be really great times when you feel like what you do matters. And then there will be times when you have to accept that you aren’t all that and you have to rely on other people for help,
