“People often get stuck on the emotion of love but fear as an emotion is just as relevant. Just as intense. Just as meaningful. It’s debatable whether or not my parents loved each other and I’ve expressed that I didn’t love my wife—nor did she love me—so my views on love are more structural. I love my family, Elias, Cress, and their children. Although it’s not the same, I know the fear I carry in relation to my family is the same as the love I have for them. Fear of ensuring I’m enough so their love for me never changes. Fear of losing them. Fear of them being wronged or hurt. That same fear
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