“My heart wants him to beg me for forgiveness. Does that make me a horrible human?” “Not a horrible human. Just human.” He shook his head. “You just need some rewiring. If you want relationships in your life to thrive, you got to operate for their good, not your own.” “That’s exactly the opposite of everything people say.” “Yep. And it’s the reason sixty-plus year marriages will die with my generation. Forgiveness, love, commitment—they’re all sacrifices. Painful ones sometimes. Folks don’t like pain.”
