“That’s unfair. Why are you trying to make me feel bad for wanting to save our sex life? To revive this marriage? I understand if—” “You don’t understand a damn thing.” “I understand if,” I resume, carefully laying out my next words, “you’re having trouble in that area. Sometimes as men age—” “I’m forty, Sol,” he fires back. “Not eighty. You ever think maybe the problem isn’t with me, but with you?” “What do you mean?” “Women’s bodies change.”