“What if you’re the ‘bio dad’ as Jake so flippantly puts it?” he asks, mocking me by using air quotes. “Where does that leave our Jake?” “Standing by my side,” Mars replies solemnly. “Showing me every day how to be the father our child deserves. A father who leads with kindness and honesty. A father who is loyal. A father willing to admit when he’s wrong and be willing to change.”