“I’m not, because I don’t have a family. I’m not in a relationship. Dad told me once that you can’t have both. You can’t love hockey like he loved hockey and be good at anything else. I knew it was true, because I was living it. I was the collateral damage. I won’t make the same mistake.” “So don’t make them,” I say. “Just make different choices. Have a different kind of relationship.” Nathan is quiet for too long before he finally says, “It’s not that easy.”