The House of Lost Secrets

by Anstey Harris

money talks, but wealth whispers, and nothing fazed them.

‘When you lose a baby, you don’t process – immediately – that you’ve lost so much more than that: you’ve lost a child, an adult, their children. It’s not until you see your other child grow and develop and become their own person that you really start to understand what was lost.’

Ben says that grief doesn’t only have to be for death, that you can grieve something you’ve never had, grieve the negative space of it.