“That’s the way my father raised our family, from the earliest moment. Lots of responsibility. We’re counting on you. We trust you. And if you screw up, just tell us about it; don’t worry about it. We’re not encouraging you to screw up, but for heaven’s sake, if you do, don’t worry. We’re all in this together, and we don’t know what we’re doing either, so come on and join in. And I always liked the idea of a small number of people. I just don’t like what happens in large groups.”