Worst Wingman Ever

by Abby Jimenez

Time is such a precious thing. How you spend it, how you waste it. And it becomes even more valuable as the hourglass runs out, because you will never get more of it. I see it every day. The panic as the last grains of sand fall.

That’s the thing about kindness. You never know how big the ripple is. How one little selfless gesture can make all the difference for the person who receives it.

pressed on the walnut-size welt. “It hurts too. It’s hard as hell.” “It’s actually hard as hail,” she said. “Did you know that? I just learned that today.” “Is it? I guess it makes sense. Did you know that when someone says ‘Break a leg’ to an actor, it’s because they’re hoping they end up in a cast?” Her mouth dropped open. “Is that true?” I was smiling. “I don’t know. I would definitely fact-check me.” She looked amused at my joke. “Did you know that the first episode of a show is called a pilot because it’s the first time it’s on the air?” she asked. “Really,” I deadpanned. “Really. But I would definitely fact-check me too.” I laughed and it made her laugh.

Very cute

No, the whole point in me telling you this story is to remind you that we need to manifest our own destiny. I never accepted less than what I deserved ever again. Never ignored a red flag or excused bad behavior. I asked for what I wanted, and I protected those I loved, and I demanded the things I needed, and I had a beautiful life.

“Take responsibility for your own unhappiness, Holly. If you don’t love your life, change it.”

“You’re gonna have so many people waiting for you in heaven one day, beautiful girl,” she said quietly. “I’ll be the first one in line.”

“Imagine having to kill a guy named Chip,” she whispered. “That would piss me off. Like, you’re gonna have a stupid name and be an asshole? Pick a struggle.” I snickered through my nose. “Jeb had a stupid name.”

Funny

reminder to control the things that are in my control.