I wonder if I ask him about the hearth in the kitchen will he have anything to say about it. Will he say, That is my favorite place in the house. That is where it gets warmest and where I can sit on a chair and hold the bare soles of my feet to the fire. I wonder if I ask him about the creak in the hallway and the firs and my mother’s spoons will he know which spoons I mean will he have used them will he know