“There's two ways to this that I see. You land on a side of love or hate and let go of everything else to reinforce that decision to give yourself peace. Or two, you won’t ever make sense of your feelings about him, and you have to live with the messiness, the jumble of confusion where your adoration for him and his despicable behavior will always be at odds inside of you.” Ugh. That sounds so hard, so awful and confusing. “The second path is certainly much harder, and most people would choose number one. It’s easier to narrow the scope and force everything else out to give yourself certainty
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