So even if I could put up with it for a while, I need to have some sort of hope that he will one day have feelings for me, no matter how far in the future that might be. I’m ready to wait if I know it will happen. Our marriage has never been a fairytale, but I thought we cared for each other. Even when we hurt one another. When I asked my therapist if it’s normal to cause each other pain when I obviously love him and he cares about me, she confirmed it. Apparently, when stressed, we get to take it out on the person closest to us. In my case, that’s Adrian.
