Many victims wonder if they are blowing things out of proportion, thinking their ex or parent or coworker is a CN. Women I talked to wonder if they are to blame and the CN was actually a great love who they will regret leaving. Many wonder if they, themselves, are narcissists. CNs will use your doubts against you, saying you are overly dramatic, too sensitive, you don’t take responsibility for yourself, you blame everyone instead, etc.
