Because of the way CNs treat their victims, it is easy to think you are at fault for so many things that have nothing to do with you. I want you to know that no matter what you did or think you could have done, there is no way this relationship could have thrived. Because covert narcissists do not have empathy, are self-focused, use people, and do not take responsibility for their actions, it is impossible for anyone to have a healthy relationship with them. Loving, healthy, life-giving relationships require certain essential traits, such as putting yourself in the other person’s shoes,
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