With most separations, there are hurt feelings and there is anger, though usually after time, things calm down. Not so with a CN. Even years after the divorce is finalized, they will still smear your name and try to control and manipulate you and put you down. This happens particularly if you are the one who filed for divorce. That creates something called a “narcissistic injury,” which a CN rarely gets over. Any threat to their ego causes this. The constant revenge is startling. This is who they are; it has nothing to do with you. The best thing you can do is heal and learn the truth so you
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