Most CNs are not interested in getting help. They are not interested in healing, and they do not think they have a problem. So for us to spend countless hours trying to figure out why they are the way they are isn’t helping them or us because there is no way of knowing for sure. We will just further exhaust ourselves, which after what we have been through, is the last thing we need. It is time to let them own their own issues, their own feelings. You are not responsible for their actions. You also are not responsible for their feelings, even though they will tell you that you are. You are not
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