What Does Love Actually Look Like? When you live with a CN for a long time, toxic behavior becomes your new normal. You lose touch with how love is really supposed to look and feel. It is important and helpful to get in touch with what the real thing looks like. One way of doing this is looking at the relationships you do have that are consistently loving. Jackson MacKenzie calls these people your “constants” in Psychopath Free. I love that. It’s a great term for it. These are the people in your life that are consistent. They have loved you for years. You feel safe with them; you feel
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