The Gift of Failure: How the Best Parents Learn to Let Go So Their Children Can Succeed

by Jessica Lahey

Here are some examples of the kinds of tasks toddlers are capable of learning: • Put their dirty clothes in a basket or hamper. • Dress themselves with clothing that’s not too complicated. • Fold simple items of clothing or linens such as pillowcases or washcloths. • Put their clothes away in drawers. • Follow two- or three-step directions in order to complete tasks (get your toothbrush, put toothpaste on it, brush your teeth). • Throw trash and recycling away in the proper place. • Put toys away in tubs and baskets when they are done playing with them. • Get out and put away their dishes as long as you arrange their cups and bowls on a low shelf. • Feed the dog or cat.