It’s not his fault, and yes, a lot of my anger is misdirected, but after writing him off for so long, it’s hard to switch gears and welcome him into our lives with open arms.
and i get that but you keep treating him as if he was the one who sent you those messages. he wasn't. either you believe him and try to move on, or you don't. you can't keep blaming him for shit he didn't do!
