“But how? He always seemed to be able to put everything else out of his mind, and I can’t do that.” “A lot of trust.” She rubs her finger over her wedding ring. “He knew that I supported him, and I expected him to put his work first when he needed to. When he was at work, he gave it his all, and when he was home, he gave that his all. You’re not going to be able to do everything, and the sooner you accept that, the sooner you’ll be able to sort out what’s important. You can focus on both. It’s not about one or the other, it’s about prioritizing.”
